As a mom, I find that I often beat myself up over something that I’m doing wrong or not doing well enough in the raising of my children. But then I remind myself that I am not today, nor will I ever be, perfect; I am flawed in so many ways I’ve lost count. And that’s okay.
But one thing I know for sure: my boys know, without a doubt, how much I love them. In that simple fact, I am confident. So today I am sharing with you my advice for how to show your kids you love them (without saying the words):
- Ask them about their day, every day.
- When they’re telling you something they deem important, give them your undivided attention.
- When they’ve done something that makes you proud, tell them.
- Make it a point to frequently remind them of all their good qualities.
- Take time to engage in one-on-one activities with them.
- Tell them how lucky you feel to be their mom.
- Laugh with them.
- Attend their extra-cariccular actives (sporting events, dance recitals, plays, etc…) as often as you can.
- Set boundaries.
- Encourage them to try harder while acknowledging what they’ve already accomplished.
- When you’re wrong, say I’m sorry.
- Respect their feelings.
- Be aware of what’s going on with their schoolwork: know when they have projects due or tests coming up; have a sense for what they’re working on for homework; have a relationship with their teachers.
- Don’t talk down to them. They may be little, but they’re still human.
- Know who their friends are—and ask about them often.
- Let them into your world; open up to them (when appropriate).
- Ask for their opinion.
- Forgive them for their mistakes. Remind them that you also make mistakes.
- Look them in the eyes when you speak to them. (This is not always possible, I know. But do it as often as you can).
- Hug them. Kiss them.
Life in motion 